(Note: A version of this article appears in the July/August 2004 issue of "The Whole Living Journal")
How does love (the Divine) want to be? How does love want to express its Self? Systems Constellation work asks these questions in a grounded, dynamic, transformative way allowing exploration of the Infinite in the context of the present human condition. In contrast to apathy, resignation, and fear, the client is opened to acceptance of “what is.” The result is deep, positive soul movement that often leads to the most creative next step —claiming power within the present and releasing into the freedom needed to create a full and abundant future. Individuals participating in the work find clarity in dealing with a wide variety of issues ranging from family issues, to business/career concerns, to exploring their experiences of the Divine.
Systems Constellation work, a relatively new discipline, found its rapid evolution through the work and extensive life experiences of Bert Hellinger. A 92-year-old German psychoanalyst and former Catholic priest, Hellinger was heavily influenced by his teen-age experiences in Nazi Germany. His life progressed in a profound study of religious, cultural, and psychoanalytic theories and practices. Hellinger’s work is a unique integration of diverse elements, based in the humble wisdom to trust in one’s own soul. Widespread in Europe, this work now is taking root in American soil. Hellinger does not consider this process a form of psychotherapy, owing to its intuitive and phenomenological nature. He simply explains this phenomenon as a mystery. It is precisely this mystery that separates the work from the therapeutic paradigms where treatment is assumed to be controlled and applied to specific symptomology. Author and psychotherapist Bertold Ulsamer states, “Doing constellations is very personal work, which is influenced by life experience, personal knowledge and understanding, and therapeutic background.”
The process of the Systems Constellation creates an experience that is phenomenological in nature--meaning that a phenomenon, or happening, occurs. The work is done with other group members standing in as representatives of family members for the individual doing the work. Thus, this model does not require an individual to do the work in the physical presence of actual family members. By opening to the Informing Field, generated by authentic questions and intention, the representatives participating in the constellation have access to knowledge, feelings and awareness that actually belong to the people they are representing; people they do not know and have little or no information about. The individual representatives relate to the other members in the constellation through verbal statements reporting physical sensations and emotions and through physical positioning within the system. As a result, the relational movement, structure, and "truth" of the system are depicted. The Informing Field and access to this phenomenon can also be used by a facilitator working with an individual.
The constellation extends itself to incorporating dynamics that may still be active— energetically, emotionally and behaviorally—through generations of family history. With acknowledgment comes transformation, and the opportunity to recreate family roles and myths, allowing individual and systemic healing. The Systems Constellation process engages the individual at a depth beyond that of the ego, allowing space for release from familial entanglements. The systemic approach sees each person as a member of his/her family, possibly carrying burdens of which s/he may or may not consciously be aware. The work offers an opportunity to become conscious of these burdens, thereby easing them on a subtle level.
In addition to being highly productive in healing individual emotional issues and relationship issues, this process is profoundly effective in providing insights into how an individual’s physical disease process may be a reflection or accommodation of the dis- ease process inherent in the structure of the family system. The effects of constellations tend to continue over substantial periods, owing to their depth and subtlety.
This process is an integration of systems theory, archetypal exploration, energy work, and the full acknowledgement of the healing field of the Divine. The work suggests that, at their core, harmful or stuck systemic entanglements are expressions of “love misdirected,” but still love. The constellation allows the harmful misdirection to find redirection and resolution. It allows love to express itself in the way it wants and needs—toward healing, wholeness, and peace, both collectively and individually.
About the author: Carolyn Zahner, LISW, brings more than 20 years of professional experience to her holistic private practice as a psychotherapist and spiritual retreat leader. For further information about Systems Constellation Workshops, or to schedule a private session or retreat for your group, contact Carolyn at 513.697.0260 or email via "Send E-mail" at top of page.
Additional References:
www.hellinger.com
Acknowledging What Is: Conversations with Bert Hellinger, by Bert Hellinger and Gabriele ten Hovel
The Art and Practice of Family Constellations, by Bertold Ulsamer
Love’s Hidden Symmetry: What Makes Love Work in Relationships, by Bert Hellinger, with Gunthard Weber and Hunter Beaumont
Supporting Love: How Love Works in Couple Relationships; transcripts of Hellinger’s work, edited by Johannes Neuhauser
To the Heart of the Matter: Brief Therapies, by Bert Hellinger